I married a police officer, whose job it was to be on the line when others needed protection, who always yearned to see his children walk for the first time because he himself was busy protecting other children from their parents' cruel deeds. .who often witnessed horrific scenes, including death. But when he came home, he just wanted to smile and laugh with his children. There are many reasons why I feel proud to be a part of the life of a police officer. .but there are many reasons why being a policeman's wife is not at all easy.
While hugging and saying 'goodbye' to him before he left for work, I was really scared that it would be the last day I could see him. .but I don't want to think about it at all, because it will only make me anxious all the time. But I'm just an ordinary person, sometimes that thought will appear once in a while. I know he must think so too. .Deciding to become a member of the police force takes great courage, and it's hard to be the one to be blamed for actually doing his duty to protect the community.
.I couldn't stand to see how many people even cursed at the police. I even claimed to be grateful to them for helping prevent a bad situation from happening in our society. .I can't stand watching news of massive anti-police demonstrations while chanting 'Kill the Police!' because it feels like they have no respect for what the police have done. .I know there are bad cops, just as there are bad people in our lives, but most of them are good people and they need to be respected. .they work to protect the public, catch thieves, keep drunk drivers on the highway, and help people who have lost their way back to their homes. They do things that other people probably can't. They are heroes..
Working for 24 hours, the job is full of risks and they are fed the stigma that the profession of making life partners is not easy. When I decided to prepare a birthday present, I put it next to his desk at home, but instead my husband had to patrol an area prone to crime. While I stayed up all night, alone, taking care of my newborn, my husband was out there taking care of a beautiful driver. While I was preparing my daughter for school, my husband was escorting the school crossing to ensure the safety of the school students.
Even during the holidays, he rarely gets the opportunity to take a day off. In this Eid moment, our family and I gather intensely, laughing together to release our longing, but again and again my husband has to be assigned, sometimes suddenly he has to leave for a remote island that is far away. prone to terrorists, when they leave for a remote island, it must be within a year, when his wife is assigned, she is in a big pregnancy, she comes home and her child is already big.
They also sometimes remind drivers to always wear seat belts. When an accident occurs on the highway, the police will immediately come to check and make us feel safe. And remember they even have family at home, whom they hope to spend time with. Every cop has people they care about and vice versa. So thank them for their work and send prayers for them so that they can still return home safely and be with their families.
Maybe for some girls, having a husband from the military or police is a dream that is always said in prayer. Yes, men in uniform do have a special place in many women's hearts. So am I. No wonder, once the dream finally came true when he came to propose and invite him to enter a more serious life, "yes" was the answer that came right away.There is pride in being able to be side by side with him on the aisle. When other couples 'only' wear traditional clothes like most, he looks dashing with the uniform he wears. That day I told the world that I was the luckiest woman in the entire universe. I also thank God for this immeasurable blessing.
His job, of course, is to serve the country. You don't know when, where and what you're doing, being the wife of a soldier or a police officer must be ready whenever your husband is called to duty. Whether it's midnight or a red date. Sometimes sad too. But what can I say, that's the risk of being married to a man in uniform. After all, when applying first, this is the most important thing to talk about and often to be reminded of. Well, as a wife, I have to be strong and support whatever she does at work ,People assume that a man in uniform will definitely have his life guaranteed. In fact, the ability to manage finances is something that the wives of these men in uniform must also have, because sometimes their income is only enough for daily needs and cannot be set aside for savings..
The assignment of her husband to overseas as a peacekeeping force shows that his performance is considered good and capable of carrying out this task. But no one can feel the sadness of delivering and letting go of him. There are no words that can describe a sad heart that will be left in a matter of months or even years. There is no strong heart to be able to accept this short farewell. Only prayer can always be said as a substitute for longing and hoping that your husband will come home safely, nothing less.
The feeling of sadness left by their husbands on duty to the region or abroad is nothing compared to those who are left by their husbands to the battlefield when their wives are pregnant. The process of giving birth was unaccompanied, when I met my father for the first time after being left behind for months, he was called Om instead. Oops, fate,
As a good wife, volleyball, gymnastics, singing and dancing skills must continue to be honed. It was also fun being able to mingle with other mothers. The activities carried out are not far from that. From Sunday events to celebrating the Indonesian Independence Day in August, these mothers are the ones who can make the most of the atmosphere. If you have mastered everything from volleyball to singing, it means that you can say it is legal to become a member of the uniformed men's wife's union. If you can't, don't worry, it's all because you're used to it, really.
Every job has its own risks, responsibilities and consequences. Likewise, if you marry a man in uniform, be it from the police or the military. prepare everything. When a husband is in charge of serving the country – in this case – we as a wife are serving our husband, accompanying him in carrying out his duties, supporting and praying for him.