happy family

Maybe according to everyone the level of happiness must be different, in my opinion a happy family like this. a family condition that enjoys togetherness in joy and sorrow. Tolerate each other, protect each other, help each other and love one another. .always want to make other family members happy, that's what is called a happy family.
One of his sources of happiness is being able to spend quality time with his family. While the happiness of parents is to see their children grow and develop well.
.Parents who often spend time with their children will make them know the child and themselves better.
Eating Together Improves Family Communication
.Although it looks simple, the habit of eating together with family at breakfast or dinner not only provides nutritional intake for the body, but can also provide enthusiasm and build togetherness. .when eating together can also be a means to exchange stories between family members so that they support each other among family members and understand what each family member is going through.
.for example, talking about what activities will be carried out, how they live today, or being able to share when they face a problem. .In addition, we can also teach children how to eat properly and correctly and introduce various types of healthy food to children.

Doing Activities Together
Creating a happy family can also be achieved by doing various fun activities together. Can invite children or spouses to do activities such as cooking, helping prepare food, or other activities. .It could also be by creating special moments, such as making healthy snacks, eating at your favorite place once a week, or doing hobbies together on the weekends.
Both Actively Moving
.Fostering happy family harmony can also be created by doing sports that you like or doing housework together such as cleaning the house, decorating the room, gardening, washing vehicles, and others.
.These physical activities are not only beneficial for the health of the body, mental, and home environment, but also can improve harmonious relationships between fellow families.
Play together
.at night, on weekends, or in your spare time try to have fun games with your children and partner. For example, playing puzzles, arranging blocks, lego, snakes and ladders, guessing pictures, ludo, guessing songs, truth or dare, and others.
.playing together can provide benefits such as strengthening family relationships, getting to know each other's characters, building communication to be more effective, learning to work together, and reducing stress experienced..
Comfortable with the Presence of Family Members
Mutual respect and consider each family member is important can help us have a happy family. For example, when children see their parents coming home from work, children are happy to see their parents present. .Likewise, when children come home after school or activities, parents are happy to see their presence at home.
Telling each other
Usually, children prefer to talk to their mothers. Then the mother tells the child's story to her father or other family members. .in a happy family, it is better if all family members openly communicate or tell stories to each other.
So, without having to be asked by children or other family members without being afraid or embarrassed, they will talk about what they are experiencing, feel, or have things they want to ask.
.balance Work Time with Family Time
When it comes to work, there is no end. If parents do not control and limit themselves to do so, of course, precious time with family will be reduced. .children will feel that their parents do not care, so a child will feel that they are not worthy.
Try to manage your time well each day. .make sure when you get home, avoid doing work, stay away from gadgets, and take time to chat with children and partners..
Help Children Set Daily Schedule
It's natural for children to have other activities after their school hours. However, make sure the portion is right, yes! .Don't let your child be too busy with activities outside the home, so that he spends more time with other people than with his main family.
.try creating fun activities with your child after school, such as swimming or rollerblading after school.
Create a Comfortable Environment at Home
For at home, it's good if you and your partner try to create a conducive and calm environment. .When talking to a child, whatever the condition, don't make a loud noise or scream and lose control.
Prioritize Family
Work and relationships with friends are important, but when you are married, let alone have children, the main focus to pay attention to is family. .by paying attention to family above all else, then fellow family members can feel belonging and loved each other. .....

Every household that always communicates with God and his fellow family members, then harmony will always be maintained. The Sakinah family is not a family without problems, but they are skilled at managing conflict into fruit full of wisdom,
.family is a little sketch of heaven on earth. In the family, we pour out love and affection. In the family, we nourish our hearts to istiqamah worship in His way. And from a pious family, the beginning of Islamic civilization was created.
.Love your family, because the family is a unitary soul full of mutual love, mutual trust and mutual understanding.
Having a harmonious family, by having a healthy, lasting, and harmonious relationship, is a dream for all families, especially for every married couple. .it is not an easy thing to create or build a good family because it definitely requires a struggle to be open and trust each other. .but there is the most important thing in building a good or harmonious family, which is not enough to be open and trust each other, but there is the most core thing, namely having the same goal of worship and seeking the pleasure of Allah. .because when in a family or couple have the same goal of worship and the pleasure of Allah SWT, besides that, a harmonious and good family is created, happiness is also created that flows in the family.
.but it turns out, having a healthy and good love relationship between families, can provide many benefits, see the explanation as follows
First, the body is healthier
My best friend, having a good relationship with a partner like us has a personal support system, which can make the mood happy, and feel always cared for. .so when the heart feels happy, and happy, the stress and sadness hormones will rarely be felt, and it will make the body condition healthier.
Second, develop into a better person
.MQ's best friend, one of the keys to having a healthy relationship is to be yourself in front of your partner. By establishing healthy relationships, and harmonization, we and our partners can be better able to accept each other's strengths and weaknesses.

. Third, Strengthen the relationship of love
Dear friend, a good relationship is certainly built by mutual understanding and respect. .when these two things can be applied to a partner, then the love relationship between the two will be more deeply rooted, and our affection and love for our partner and family will be even greater.
Fourth, reduce stress
.dear friend, when we have complaints due to a problem, for example problems at work or because deadlines and targets are not in line with expectations, we sometimes need someone to share advice and listen to our stories, by building good relationshipshealthy with a partner or family, then we and our partner can be a place to exchange ideas from the problems at hand, so as not to make us feel depressed first.
.Fifth, worship is maximizedfriends, with a good relationship with our partners and families, family relationships are not only limited to pleasing each other, but there we can remind each other in obedience and patience to Allah, and we can be more united in..worship, because it communicates a family vision in this world and in the hereafter.Dear friends, family is the estuary as well as the first and greatest asset we have, to gain knowledge, expand practice, as well as enrich knowledge..
The Messenger of Allah gave a will to his people to maintain domestic relations by using three main foundations, namely sakinah (tranquility), mawaddah (mutual love), and rahmah (compassion). .because building a palace in the household is a difficult thing to do, if we want to try and pray.
. As social beings, it is impossible for us not to interact with other people.After all, having lots of friends has many benefits. .but on the one hand, there is only negative talk from other people that can disturb our confidence. Even though I have learned to be indifferent, sometimes feeling annoyed and influenced still likes to influence.
Other people can talk what they want, but they don't have the right to control your life,You can never control what other people say. They may judge, criticize, and even envy your achievements. But what you have to realize is that they have no right to rule your life. So, don't allow anyone to limit your space..
Subconsciously when we hear negative talk from other people, we think about it constantly. This will actually have a bad effect on your self-confidence. Sometimes being selfish by ignoring other people's opinions is necessary. .so it's best, don't waste your energy on things that are not important and focus on the people who support you.
Love and Enjoy What You Can Do.
Negative talk from other people that hurt your heart should not be carried away by feelings, because if you think about it more it will make you pessimistic. Rest assured that what you are doing right now is good for you. Love and enjoy what you can do, yes.
.Each person is unique, so it can't be generalized
Providing an understanding for others that each individual is different will be difficult. But it will be easier if you can apply that mindset to yourself. .so many people have changed as a result of being consumed by other people's words, which they realize that it is actually not their own will. So, free yourself because it is not important to be recognized by others as long as you can be happy by being yourself..........

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    Asyraf531Asyraf

    hoo

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    thanks

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    so reality and good

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